MAGNETIC LIFESTYLE & BREAST CANCER

Magnetic Lifestyle & Breast Cancer

On Friday 25th June 2010, Cathie was assessed with breast cancer.

Due to her attitude and the beliefs she has developed over the past 15 years, she sees this assessment as an opportunity to grow personally and to apply the principles shared within the Magnetic Lifestyle blog.

Because of the love and support of her husband Dave, her family and friends (and the mentoring of Peter) she remains positive and has absolute certainty that all is well.

Through a series of short videos, Cathie is recording her personal experiences in the belief it will help her and inspire others who may be undergoing similar challenges.

Follow Cathie as she shares her new journey …

A PERSONAL STORY

A personal story

If you are followers of our Magnetic Lifestyle blog, you will know that we live in a universe which operates in accordance with precise and repeatable laws and that one of the most powerful of these laws is known as the Law of Attraction. In simple terms, this law states that you are a living magnet, constantly drawing to you the things, the people and the circumstances which are in accord with your most dominant thoughts and feelings.

Over the last 3 months, Cathie and I have been on one of the most amazing journeys of our lives and we want to share the details with you in the hope it will inspire you to create the changes you desire in your life.

It all started on 14th March 2010, when a friend of ours asked if we had seen the amazing Youtube videos about a breakthrough technology causing ‘miraculous’ results around the world. Well of course, in an orderly universe, the term ‘miracle’ is normally associated with something we don’t yet understand, and so with our curiosity aroused we decided to investigate further.

What we discovered was a Company who resonated with every core principle we write about in our Magnetic Lifestyle blog. At it’s heart, the Company owners recognise that deep down we all want to be part of something greater than ourselves and we want to know we are making a real difference in the lives of others. It’s like a divine discontent and restlessness which affects the lives of all of us and we will never rest content until we find it.

However for Cathie and myself the impact was even more profound. In this one Company, we had finally found an opportunity that enabled us – easily and effortlessly – to integrate on a daily basis, the ’17 Steps to a Magnetic Lifestyle’ we so passionately believe and write about in this blog.

For example, you cannot achieve true ‘success’ in this opportunity unless your focus is 100% on sharing and helping others (see principle 14 of the ’17 steps’). The revolutionary breakthrough in technology is based on the nobel prize winning research that everything in our universe is energy (see principle 2 of the ’17 steps’). As you listen to the Company owners you discover that gratitude and your ‘worthiness’ to receive all you desire, are an integral part of their philosophy (see principle 5 of the ’17 steps’).

By associating with this Company, everyone has an opportunity to become part of something greater than themselves (see principle 9 of the ’17 steps’).

In just over 3 months, Cathie and I have ‘attracted’ a team of 90 people in 12 countries through the principle of sharing this opportunity and having fun. And we haven’t even got started yet! The secret to this success story is a technology ‘whose time has come’.

We are so grateful to have drawn this opportunity into our lives and we feel it is our responsibility to share it with as many people as possible who may feel drawn towards it.

If you would like to find out more, please visit our sister blog or to watch some amazing videos click here.  We would love for you to join us on this global mission to ease the pain and suffering in the world.

Ex-army and paramedic is a tad “gobsmacked” at being able to move his knee after 20 years!

ATTRACTING THE RIGHT INTERNET MARKETING TOOLS

Attracting the right Internet Marketing tools

If you’ve read the 17 steps to a Magnetic Lifestyle, you’ll know that sometimes you have to trust your intuition that you will be attracted or drawn to the right people at the right time to assist you in the achievement of your goals and dreams.

The purpose of this post is to share our recent ‘attraction’ experience in relation to the right marketing tools to build a successful internet business. We hope you enjoy it.

Internet Marketing Newbie?

If you are a newbie to the internet marketing business, one of the biggest hurdles to overcome is the sense of overwhelm. There is just so much information out there as to what you should or should not be doing, and the tools you should or should not be using. Perhaps the best advice we can offer is to look to those individuals who are already achieving the success you desire and learn directly from them. Life is too short to continually learn from your own mistakes.

Trust your intuition

Certainly there is no substitute for thorough research and due diligence, but sometimes the final decision boils down to trusting your gut feelings. This is what happened to us. After a LOT of research and due diligence, we eventually came across a company known as GVO (Global Virtual Opportunities). GVO offered a one-stop-shop for all our marketing tools and a HUGE saving on purchasing similar tools individually.

But our decision to enroll in GVO was not based on logic but intuition … it felt right. In short, as we looked into GVO further, we came across the names of 3 people we knew personally, all successful internet marketers, and it was our trust and faith in them that determined our final choice.

FREE Gift worth $5,775

The reason we wanted to share this post with you is that when we enrolled in GVO, we received a surprise Gift valued at $5,775 FREE and we wanted to offer the same opportunity to YOU. Here’s what happened. As we delved deeper into GVO, we came across the name TeamBobYeager. Peter first met Bob Yeager about 2 years ago and presented a global webinar with him on Beliefs. Bob is a master at Internet marketing and developed the largest Internet Marketing Training Course known as The World Entrepreneur Success Training Program or WEST program for short.

We discovered that Bob has joined in leadership with GVO and anyone who enrols in the GVO Titanium package BEFORE the end of February will receive Bob’s flagship WEST program (valued at $5775) absolutely FREE.

The GVO Titanium Package and why we chose it?

The GVO Titanium Package includes the TOP 5 tools successful marketers use EVERY DAY to make sales on autopilot. We could have got these tools from different sources but it would have cost between $150 and $350 each and every month. The GVO Titanium package includes all these tools and costs around $1.45 a day, less than a Starbucks coffee or hot chocolate!

If YOU would like to combine the finest education of the WEST program with the essential Internet marketing tools of the GVO Titanium pack, click here BEFORE the end of February.

We’re both very excited to be using these essential tools and to offer you the same opportunity to join Team Bob Yeager so you too can receive help and support in the building of your own successful internet business.

And we look forward to sharing our own progress over the coming months via our blog.

Thought you might like to watch a 4 minute video with Mike Silva explaining the WEST program …


Mike Silva explains the WEST program


Remember the offer for the FREE WEST program is available until 28th February 2010 so CLICK HERE NOW if you want to join in the fun !


WELCOME TO TEAM BOB YEAGER and GVO

Welcome to Team Bob Yeager and GVO

Internet Marketing Tools & Internet Marketing Training

Wondering where we’ve been, well we’ve been searching for some great ways to make the blog even better for you and for us.

Having done our research and due diligence, both Peter and myself are thrilled to have become members of Team Bob Yeager and GVO in the last couple of days. As we are both fully aware, the internet is THE WAY forward to market both our online and offine businesses AND to achieve the rewards we all deserve to a live a Magnetic Lifestyle.

We’re going to update you periodically on our exciting journey with Team Bob Yeager and GVO and we’d like to share something very SPECIAL with you that’s happening in February. Bob is truly a giving person.

The World Entrepreneur Success Training Program (WEST)

This flagship program of Bob Yeager’s is a step-by-step, systematic approach to learn all about internet marketing and developing a successful and sustainable internet business.

Go WEST – in February FREE!


Bob has given both Peter and myself his WEST Program FREE – WOW!!! What’s even more exciting is that we can pass this on to all our friends (that’s YOU!) for the month of February.

Peter has known Bob Yeager for many years and is aware that he usually charges $5,775 for this training

Here’s a very brief history of Bob Yeager

In Bob’s life, there have been many challenges which include

  1. Battling terminal cancer
  2. Overcoming depression and nervous breakdowns
  3. Maintaining a top competitors status in the martial arts industry
  4. Creating a successful, scalable and financially sound stay at home global business
  5. Overcoming homelessness and poverty
  6. Growing a happy, loving and abundant family while……

…… Having achieved all of this by the age of 30

Find out how you could become part of Team Bob Yeager WITH US – simply click on the video below to hear what Bob is offering and why:

Click this link to get your GVO tools and take advantage of this amazing offer from Bob

Follow us or better still, why not join us on this exciting and rewarding Journey NOW …

WHY CATHIE NEEDS A CORRECT MAP OF THAILAND

 

Cathie draws the short straw and experiences the Magnetic Lifestyle!

If you have read the WELCOME page, you will realize that this blog is slightly different in that we are using the acronym MAGNETIC LIFESTYLE to present some ideas and insights which we hope will help you attract the lifestyle you choose.

The first 8 posts for the acronym MAGNETIC are foundational and are intended as a ‘map’ to help you apply the subsequent 9 posts for LIFESTYLE in a fun, effortless and enjoyable way.

In the post  IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT it was explained that when you describe what you see in the world ‘out there’, you are not describing true reality, but a dramatically filtered version of reality created through your own personal beliefs. This is a key understanding because it means that as well as looking at the world you see, you have to look at the lens through which you see the world, your belief system or your own internal ‘map of reality’.

The following analogy may help. In celebration of the publishing of the MAGNETIC posts, ‘techie queen’ Cathie and her husband Dave are jetting off to Thailand for 22 days stopping at Bangkok, Phi Phi & Krabi Islands & Phuket.

Now imagine that the travel agent sends Cathie a street map marked ‘Bangkok’ but due to a printing error it’s actually a map of Nonthaburi (2nd largest city in Thailand). When Cathie arrives in Bangkok she gets the street map out and is immediately confused. So she calls up the travel agent and explains that she can’t make sense of any of the street names. The travel agent representative, who has been brought up to believe in the importance of diligence and perseverance, politely tells Cathie to ‘try harder’. So Cathie, who is renowned for never giving up, sets off with Dave with a quickness in their step, determined to find their hotel. The result – they now get lost twice as fast!

Feeling worse than ever, Cathie rings the travel agent again. Realising Cathie’s attitude and spirit are very low, the travel representative tells Cathie not to get disheartened and to think more positively and asks her where she is. Cathie says she’s outside a bookshop and the travel agent tells her to go in and pick up all the books she can on Positive Mental Attitude (PMA). So Cathie goes in, purchases a couple of books and reviews them with Dave. Now they’re both so psyched up and feeling so positive that you can’t stop them. They set off again and because of their new positive attitude, they don’t even mind that they’re lost and can’t find their hotel! They smile and accept the reality of the situation.

Although this may seem a silly analogy, how many times do we try to change our behaviour and attitude without questioning the accuracy of the ‘map’ from which our behaviour and attitude automatically flow? This is not to say that a good positive attitude is not important. It most certainly is, but you still need a correct map if you are to successfully navigate your way in life and achieve the changes you desire.

Cathie takes up the story by sharing her own personal insights on the importance of a correct map….

For over 50 years I’ve lived with the belief that to be successful, I had to work hard and that nothing came easy. Although my family and friends know me as a very positive, determined and hardworking person, I was continuously being asked why I wasn’t getting anywhere, even though I believed I would ‘someday’. Being a very passionate person, I’ve always given 100% to everything I attempt, yet I couldn’t put my finger on what was missing that would get me to my ‘destination’.

Like many people, my life has been a mixture of good and bad experiences. But the significant and big changes in my life only began when I took the time to really examine my own map of reality. I had always had a positive attitude and yet I was still not achieving the results I wanted. Why? It was because I had an inaccurate map. It was only when I started to challenge my current thoughts and beliefs about who I was and what I was capable of, that I realised that my ‘map’ or the lens through which I saw the world and myself was completely untrue.

As I began to create a more accurate map, based on the truth of who I am and what I can achieve, my new behaviour, attitude, actions and results changed automatically. It is the best investment of time I’ve ever made.

For more information read About Cathie

In order to allow YOU sufficient time to really examine your own map or the lens or beliefs through which you see the world, we have decided to defer publishing the 9 posts on LIFESTYLE until Cathie’s return. This will give you the opportunity to complete all the ACTION Steps and Belief Study Workbook published so far.

The next post is … LIVE YOUR LIFE ON PURPOSE

 

STEP 07 – IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT

 

You are always believing in something

There is a huge difference between choices we are conscious of
and choices that are consciously made

There are only two things that cause you to do anything: belief and understanding. Some people have the belief they can do better. Other people don’t believe they can do better but through understanding and re-evaluation move from a non-believer to a believer.

For example, before Roger Bannister completed the sub four-minute mile, it was believed such an achievement was impossible. Sports commentators and physiologists said it could not be done. Roger Bannister had the belief it could be done and on 6 May 1954 achieved the ‘impossible’. By 1979, over 300 other runners had broken the four-minute barrier. Their beliefs changed in light of their re-evaluation of the Truth.

How beliefs work

In order to understand why beliefs are so important to your success, let’s take a quick look at how they work. According to Hungarian biologist, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, there are two million bits of information bombarding our senses every second of every day. If we try to make sense of all this information we would go insane. So our nervous system filters the two million bits of information down to 134 bits through a process of deletion, distortion and generalisation. All three processes are quite natural and essential. The system in charge of filtering all of this information is called the ‘Reticular Activating System’ or RAS. Roughly the size of a little finger, the RAS runs from the top of the spinal cord into the middle of the brain and automatically filters incoming stimuli into what is important and what is not important based upon our beliefs, values and prejudices.

For example, we can probably all relate to the following car experience. Have you ever took ownership of a new car and then seen identical cars everywhere you go. They’re at the stop lights, parked near you in the car park and cruising past you on the freeway. You can’t believe it, where have they all suddenly appeared from? Well of course these similar cars have been ‘out there’ all the time, but they have not appeared in your reality because they have not been important to you. You have unconsciously filtered them out of your awareness.

Your beliefs create your experiences

So why is this information important to you? Well your experiences in life are determined by what you focus on. And you can’t focus and take action on things you have deleted from your awareness. And so the filtering process is crucial to understand because it provides the ‘raw material’ upon which you create your life experiences.

Yet only 0.0067% of the available information filters into your awareness, the rest is filtered out. So unless you are very clear and specific on what you desire, you will unconsciously filter out all the ideas and opportunities that could help you. Think about this carefully because it means your beliefs act as a sort of gatekeeper through which you grant or refuse permission for certain thoughts and ideas to flow into your awareness.

The subconscious mind cannot think for itself. It’s job is to make sure that what you believe will become true for you. For example, if you believe “it’s hard to earn money” or “money is evil” or “I don’t deserve to be rich” the filtering process will work as follows. You will unconsciously delete and distort all incoming information so as to support these limiting beliefs. You will attract and be attracted to people and situations that confirm the truth of what you believe. If you are faced with a number of possible interpretations, you will select those which support your beliefs and filter out the many other valid interpretations which contradict your beliefs.

You did not choose your beliefs

So where do your beliefs come from in the first place? Well, one thing is for sure, you did not choose them. When you are born, your fertile subconscious mind is wide open because none of your higher faculties (such as your ability to reason and reject information) have developed. As a result, parents, teachers and others in authority can place any information in your subconscious mind and if it is repeated over and over again, it forms your beliefs. These beliefs are neither accurate nor complete and are simply the product of other peoples’ habitual ways of thinking. This may be why the word belief has the word “lie” in it!

So although The Law of Vibration and Attraction confirms that, at some level, you have ‘attracted’ all of your life’s experiences, it is also true that there is a big difference between choices we are conscious of and choices that are consciously made. For example, most people would agree that in addition to our inherited belief system, we did not consciously choose the DNA received from our parents at conception. This provides the blueprint for our body’s physicality as well as any intellectual, psychological or emotional predispositions. Neither did we consciously choose our childhood environment which moulded and shaped our developing neurology.

You are doing the best you can

So don’t be too harsh on yourself as you read and complete the exercises in this blog. You are doing the very best you can based on your current level of awareness. The purpose of this blog is to help you raise your level of awareness so that you can create your life by design, rather than by default.

Consider this. When a speedboat travels across the water, it leaves a white foamy froth behind called the wake. The wake is not driving the boat. The boat moves because of the energy generated by the engine in the present moment. The wake is simply the trail left behind. The same principle applies to your life.

You do have a past (wake) in which choices were not consciously made, but it is your choices in this present moment that will determine your progress forward. So how do you identify any beliefs you may have which may be holding you back from achieving your desires? Well because your beliefs will always become true for you, your present results are an accurate reflection of your current beliefs in the main areas of your life.

FREE BELIEF STUDY WORKBOOK

If you wish to review your current beliefs, a complimentary belief study workbook, including instructions, exercises and templates has been prepared to assist you with this process.

Download your copy of the BELIEF STUDY WORKBOOK

Warning!

Paradoxically, your current belief system may try to convince you that you do not need to download this workbook and review your current beliefs! This would be a mistake. E.M. Gray spent his life searching for the common denominator shared by successful people. He found it wasn’t hard work, good luck or astute human relations, though these were important. In his essay “The Common Denominator of Success”, he observed, “The successful person has the habit of doing the things failures don’t like to do.”

Failures do not like to spend the time required to review their current belief systems. But it is not a ‘spending’ of time, but an ‘investment’ of time, because if you are not living the lifestyle you would choose, it is because your core beliefs are not in vibrational harmony with what you desire.

ACTION

Step One 

Download your copy of the BELIEF STUDY WORKBOOK (if you haven’t already)

Step Two

Are you allowing your past (wake) to drive you forward? Sit quietly in contemplation of this question. Realise your past has no power over you other than what you give it. Re-read Mindset and watch the inspiring videos to remind yourself that you always have a choice as to how you will respond to your current circumstances.

Step Three 

Be kind to yourself. We all do the best we can based on our present level of awareness. As Oprah says, when you know better, you can do better. And the fact you are reading this blog is evidence you are taking steps to do better. So pat yourself on the back and CONGRATULATIONS.

In every single moment, we are all drawing on the same infinite power and working with exactly the same laws. This means what one person can do, others can do too. As George Elliot reminds us “It’s never too late in life to be what you might have been”.

This is discussed in the next post …  CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU

STEP 04 – NOW IS ALL THERE IS

 

The paradox of time

No matter how persistent the illusion of time may be, the illusion of past, present and future is still an illusion. 

 - Einstein

At first glance Einstein’s quote seems ridiculous. How can we deny the reality of time? You need time to grow up, to acquire new skills, to design and build a house, to visit family and friends and, of course, to read this blog. Everything seems subject to time, so how can ‘Now’ be all there is.

The paradox arises because the eternal moment of Now is confused with the ‘content’ or what is happening in the present moment of Now and this gives rise to the illusion Einstein refers to.

The following analogy may help. Think of the eternal moment of Now as a movie screen that allows the movie, which is the ‘content’ of our lives to play out. The content (movie) is always changing, whereas the movie screen is permanent and changeless. The paradox is that the changing content of our lives is always happening in the changeless moment of Now. 

 

To help integrate this concept into your consciousness, Eckhart Tolle poses the following questions in his brilliant book, The Power of NOW.  Answer them carefully.

  • Have you ever experienced, done, thought, or felt anything outside the present moment of Now?
  • When do you think about your past?
  • When do you dream about your future? 
  • When do you learn from your past? 
  • When do problems arise?
  • When are they solved? 
  • When do you feel pain? 
  • When are you healed?
  • Can you do something yesterday Now?
  • Can you do something tomorrow Now?
  • When do you dream of your ideal lifestyle?
  • When do you see the physical manifestation of your dreams?

Your answers should confirm that everything takes place in the eternal moment of Now. Now is all there is. What does this mean for You? Well it means that if you want to improve your life, you can only ever do it Now. If you say you will start in 6 weeks time, when 6 weeks arrives it will be Now. Your magnetic point of attraction is always in the Now. The moment of Now is where all your power is.

If we spend most of our time thinking about the past, or worrying about the future, we will miss the insights, gut feelings and creative solutions that can only come to us if we are present and still enough, long enough, to receive them. This is why all the great teachers encourage us to be still and enjoy the present moment.

One of the most important relationships you will ever have is your relationship with the Now, or more accurately, with what is happening in the Now. This is because Now is all there is. Saying ‘Yes’ to Now is saying ‘Yes’ to life because life and Now are inseparable. Yet how many times do we say ‘No’ to life by having thoughts which oppose the reality of the present moment.

Thoughts like: 

  • The weather should be better
  • The checkout queues should be shorter
  • The traffic should move faster
  • My wife, husband or partner should agree with me
  • The neighbours should be quieter
  • I should be healthier, thinner or more successful
  • Children should be better behaved
  • Things should be cheaper
  • People should be more considerate

And the list goes on and on. This is important because all suffering is caused by wanting what is happening to be different from what is happening! What is happening IS happening and no amount of thinking or worrying can change this. When your thoughts argue with the reality of the moment you suffer….100% of the time.

It is not a question of right or wrong or the condoning or approving of what is happening. These are judgment views anyway. It is the mental anguish you cause yourself every time you oppose or argue with reality. What is ..is. And the truth is that for everything you think is wrong and should not have happened, someone else ‘out there’ will think it’s right and it should have happened.

So what’s the answer? The answer is to upgrade your thoughts to a preference. This means that you prefer something to be a certain way. You prefer less violence in the world, less poverty, shorter checkout queues, better weather, but you don’t insist on it because if you do, you know you suffer.

Your power lies not in resisting ‘what is’, but in letting ‘what is’ be ok. You can then be more effective in responding to the issue. This leads to a key understanding. It is never the event itself that is the cause of your suffering. It is your resistance to it. By accepting what is and saying ‘yes’ to life, you remove all resistance and life starts working for you rather than against you.

ACTION

Step One

Continually revisit the questions posed by Eckhart Tolle and included in this post until the truth that Now is all there is, forms an integral part of your consciousness. 

Step Two

Notice when your thoughts argue with ‘what is’ and in that moment upgrade your thoughts to a preference. Journal any changes in your feelings when you make the shift from insisting things ‘should’ be a particular way, to ‘preferring’ them to be a particular way.

For more information about Journaling, read the … GRATITUDE

Step Three

Become more conscious of your five senses as you engage in everyday tasks. For example, when you are washing your hands, pay attention to the sight and sound of the water coming out of the tap, feel the sensation of the water on your hands and smell the fragrance of the soap as you rub your hands together. Be fully present in the moment instead of being absorbed in thought about the past or the future.  

Step Four

At least twice a day, take time to pay attention to your breathing. You may wish to close your eyes. Breathe in deeply, excluding any thoughts as you concentrate on the in-breath. Then exhale slowly and fully with the same concentration. When thoughts appear, as they will, let them go and use them as reminders to refocus on your breathing. When you are conscious of your breathing, you are in the present moment.

Step Five

Don’t take life too seriously. The content of your life (what is happening) is impermanent and always changing. During challenging times, repeat to yourself “This too shall pass”. And remember, these words do not become true because you affirm them. You affirm them because they are true.  

If energy is neither created nor destroyed and Now is all that exists, then every thing you desire is already here, if not in one state, certainly in another.

This is discussed in the next post  … EVERYTHING IS ALREADY HERE